Coping With The Emotional Impact Of Menopause

Posted by admin on Jan 12, 2009

Menopause. The mere mentioning of this completely natural and unavoidable condition strikes fear into the hearts of many women. Don’t be afraid – menopause is part of nature’s grand scheme and should be approached from this perspective. The bulk of women experience the onset of menopause between the age of 45 and 55. It does not mean menopause cannot begin earlier or later, but the condition usually manifests within this range. When the female body enters menopause it heralds an end to the reproductive cycle.

Menopause occurs because the female body no longer produces progesterone and estrogen at the same rate. The production of these important reproductive hormones decreases dramatically leading to a variety of changes. Women know that it won’t be long before they never have to endure the symptoms of PMS or their menstruation cycle again. This may sound like a great event – but there are other symptoms that occur including leading up to this point: fluctuations in appetite, insomnia, hot flashes, hazy or foggy thinking, depression, anger, emotional problems, and mood swings.

Perhaps the most difficult of the symptoms to deal with are emotional in nature. Many women report feeling not like themselves. Depression, anger, and mood swings are common and can present many problems.

Fortunately, there is a way to cope with these problems. You are not alone in your struggle. There are millions upon millions of other women experiencing menopause. In fact, statistics state out that each day more than 4,000 women in the United States alone experience the onset of menopause.

This being said, the options for you to seek help are extensive. If the emotional symptoms you are experiencing are severe or last for a long time it is probably a good idea to seek some help. Emotional disturbances due to menopause do not mean you are crazy: it is a natural process that hits some women harder than others. Counselling can help you get in touch with your feelings. Do not try to battle menopause without some sort of support network.

Relaxation may also be key in your battle against emotional difficulties. Try treating yourself to an afternoon at a local day spa or a relaxing massage. It sounds trite but can really make the difference to your overall mood. If you have access to a Jacuzzi the warm water and the jets can put you into a relaxed state. Sound therapy, light therapy, hydrotherapy, aroma therapy, acupuncture, and acupressure can also provide relief – both emotional and physical. Hypnosis has a good track record in helping women manage emotional stress due to menopause.

It is very important that you enlist the support of your friends – many of whom are most likely going through what you are, and also your partner and close family members. Explain to them how you are feeling. Once they understand why you’re being snappy, angry or rude they are more likely to be understanding and help you through what can be a challenging time. In addition, there are support groups available where you can get things off your chest and experience a feeling of solidarity.

Besides more traditional hormone replacement therapy (HRT) there is a wide selection of natural supplements on the market which can provide both physical and emotional relief from menopause.

Make sure you take care of yourself. If you do not take the first step in learning to cope with the emotional side-effects of menopause, nobody will take it for you.

Resources:

Menozac – for immediate Menopause Symptoms Relief from symptoms including:

• Mood Swings

• Anxiety.

• Palpitations.

• Depression.



The plight of prople in the industry of spa, massage and wellness?

Posted by admin on Jan 12, 2009

Hi Everyone,

I would like to pose a question to members of this forum who are into the field of spa, massage, facial therapies, wellness and related fields. Kindly give your occupation/designation (example: spa owner, massage therapist, aesthetician, massage student, etc.) and kindly enumerate what are the three most common concerns, problems or dilemma that you have encountered while in this industry. This might be work related or the industry as a whole. What do you think would be the possible solution/s to solve it?
Thank you in advance for sharing your thoughts, answers and comment.

Hats off to all of you. Maraming salamat po.

Mabuhay po kayong lahat!

Eunice
yunesa@yahoo.com

Howdy Eunice,
I am a massage therapist working for myself in a small town in North Carolina, USA. My three most often thought of concerns are as follows.
1. Money, or the lack of during the slow times at the office.
2. The Board of Massage and Bodywork Therapists. They tend to be out of touch with the therapists and seem to be working for the Massage Schools.
3. Clientele. Some folks think we are still hookers and want things that the Law doesn't allow.
I do hope this helps with your query.
KBB
And was that Tagalog?

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The plight of people in the Spa, Massage and Wellness industry?

Posted by admin on Jan 10, 2009

Hi Everyone,

I would like to pose a question to members of this forum who are into the field of spa, massage, facial therapies, wellness and related fields. Kindly give your occupation/designation (example: spa owner, massage therapist, aesthetician, massage student, etc.) and kindly enumerate what are the three most common concerns, problems or dilemma that you have encountered while in this industry. This might be work related or the industry as a whole. What do you think would be the possible solution/s to solve it?
Thank you in advance for sharing your thoughts, answers and comment.

Hats off to all of you. Maraming salamat po.

Mabuhay po kayong lahat!

Eunice
yunesa@yahoo.com

My most common would have to be:
1. Extremely slow times
-right now due to the economy and the after holiday mess,
nothing to do but wait it out and try to offer deals
2. Having to deal with male clients who seem to think that all
massages are Vegas style.
-I personally give those clients a stern talk and ask them to
never come back. I also cut the session short, but still
charge them!
3. My spa has too many massage therapists and not enough
clients to split. I have no idea why my boss just hired one
more!
-I've started looking for another place to do on call work!

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The Plight of people in the Industry: Spa, Massage and Wellness?

Posted by admin on Jan 8, 2009

Hi Everyone,

I would like to pose a question to members of this forum who are into the field of spa, massage, facial therapies, wellness and related fields. Kindly give your occupation/designation (example: spa owner, massage therapist, aesthetician, massage student, etc.) and kindly enumerate what are the three most common concerns, problems or dilemma that you have encountered while in this industry. This might be work related or the industry as a whole. What do you think would be the possible solution/s to solve it?
Thank you in advance for sharing your thoughts, answers and comment.

Hats off to all of you. Maraming salamat po.

Mabuhay po kayong lahat!

Eunice
yunesa@yahoo.com

I like what I do but the worst part is that some people don't think I do massages. They think I'm into some kind of weird sex thing. Then when they find out I'm not they get upset. Also when the soreness returns in a couple days they say I didn't do my job right and are angry. Other than that its pretty good.

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Swedish or Hot Stone Therapy Massage?

Posted by admin on Jan 6, 2009

I am planning on giving my mom a day at the spa for her birthday. I am also going to go to the spa with her to make it a mother/daughter day. I have been looking at the spas website to decide what services to get. What is the difference in a Swedish massage and a hot stone therapy massage? With the hot stone therapy, do they give a regular massage and then also use the stones or do they just use the stones? Also, which massage do you prefer?

I did not write this, it is from a website advertising massages:

Swedish massage is a system of long strokes, kneading, friction, tapping, percussion, vibration and shaking motions that apply pressure between muscles and bones, rubbing in the same direction as the flow of blood returning to the heart. Swedish massage feels good, and is relaxing and invigorating.

The main purpose of Swedish massage is to increase the oxygen flow in the blood and release toxins from the muscles. Some other benefits include shortening recovery time from muscular strain, increased circulation without increased heart load, stretching of ligaments and tendons, skin stimulation and a soothing effect on the nervous system. It reduces stress, both emotional and physical, and is suggested as part of a regular program for stress management.

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Hot stone massage is a specialty massage that uses smooth, heated stones. They are often basalt, a black volcanic rock that absorbs and retains heat well.

It is a deeply soothing, relaxing form of massage. The heat helps tight muscles release. Before you arrive, the massage therapist sanitizes the stones and heats them in 120 and 150 degree water. The therapist uses traditional strokes of Swedish massage while holding a heated stone. As the stone cools, the therapist replaces it with another.

The therapist might also leave heated stones in specific points along your spine, or in the palms of your hand, or even between your toes to improve the flow of energy in your body.

If you have inflammation or muscle injury, cold stones are sometimes used. The heat of the stones helps muscles release more quickly than in traditional massage.

Technique is very important. Less experienced practitioners sometimes use too much pressure. Small local day spas might have less experienced therapists. If you have any doubts, ask where the therapist learned hot stone massage, and how long she has done it.

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I love both massages, so can't choose a best one. I would also suggest getting the following done too:

A relaxing facial using organic skincare creams
A reflexology treatment
An Ayurveda treatment called Shirodhara

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